women don't care about you - they only care about your money.
if you're OK with that and just want sex - there is no issue.
but if you fall in love then YOU are the fucking idiot here.
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You're living in hell with these ideas
His Hell is his own construction at this point.
He will have to start the work of tearing it down himself first, then we may be able to help.
He needs attention to feel loved. Obviously, he can't look inside and repair the demons that haunt him.