It's not always about breaking the pattern.

Tbh if you think about stereotypical magicians in like books and stuff. It might be more about reinforcing the pattern to most.

I want her to fall in love with me. Love goddesses like roses and string men that smell like wood smoke and patchouli. So I'm going to dance around this fire gather a bunch of roses and bring this woman the biggest prize I can find. 🤷🏽