Replying to Avatar 𝔼𝕣π•ͺπ•Ÿ 𝔹𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕠

The problem is not enjoying that a woman is beautiful.

The problems are:

1. The idea that you are entitled to fantasize about a beautiful woman

2. The idea that women exist for the enjoyment of men
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Deleted Account 1y ago

Of course I can tell when someone is conventionally attractive, (symmetrical), but the beauty of a person is only truly revealed in the quirks of their personality. I love an oddball.

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𝔼𝕣π•ͺπ•Ÿ 𝔹𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕠 1y ago

There are so many different kinds of beauty, it’s true! What I’m saying is actually more radical than β€œit’s okay to tell when someone is beautiful,” conventionally and physically or otherwise. I think it’s good to ENJOY that they are beautiful.

Many people don’t see that enjoying beauty is not the same as fetishizing beauty. This is what I’m trying to call attention to.

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Deleted Account 1y ago

I understood. Just piggybacking. The hyper critical me doesn’t believe in beauty. Everything is a flaw. But I am catholic so that has to be taken into consideration.

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𝔼𝕣π•ͺπ•Ÿ 𝔹𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕠 1y ago

A thing can be beautiful without being perfect πŸ«‚

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Deleted Account 1y ago

Very true.

The down side of this form of communication is that a lot of the ideas we throw around here books could and have been written about them. Nuance and illustration easily get lost.