I feel you, and it's a real problem. I kinda find a solution to own essentials only where each thingy had it's place but when It come to decluttering, I'm still keeping my hiden stashes of things here and there and when they came out of the storage, they are keep avoiding going back to the storage compartment. I really suck at this.

The thing is, we have too much stuff we don't really need and hardcore decluttering might be the way.