How about these? Are these lesbian enough? 
Discussion
What if these are the realistic portrayals of lesbian femmes?
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I suppose this is the reason why some men harbor animosity towards lesbians. They perceive lesbians as stealing attractive women from them. So engrossed are they in their hatred for lesbians that they fail to realize that these women may never have had any romantic or sexual interest in them, regardless of their sexual orientation. (It’s likely that these men are insecure incels. If you’re an attractive man, why would you feel insecure about lesbians when you have the ability to seduce any woman you desire?)
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Or perhaps this is connected to the infidelity issue? I can relate to this because women also face similar issues with gay people. However, infidelity is not dependent on sexual orientation. There is no justification for anyone to be unfaithful to their spouse. I don’t believe I can make excuses for anyone, regardless of their sexual orientation, disability, or any other factor. Rules are rules, and promises are meant to be kept.
As someone who dedicated a substantial part of her life to researching and writing to establish the cultural norm that safeguards the fundamental rights of single-household families, I am at a loss for what else I can do to assist these individuals. Simply refrain from marrying someone you are not in a romantic relationship with. Do not make excuses after solemnly swearing in front of a large audience at your wedding and intentionally breaking that promise. 🤷🏻♀️