If an action or utterance is appropriate, then it's appropriate for you. Don't be put off by other people's comments and criticism. If it's right to say or do it, then it's the right thing for you to do or say.

The others obey their own load, follow their own impulses. Dont be distracted. Keep walking. Follow your own nature, and follow Nature—along the road they share.

Marcus Aurelius, on TCP over nostr