I think it’s the self-righteous justification you hold by feeling wronged.
Hard to just logic one’s way away from thinking you have the higher ground.
But yeah, it is hard to still hold an active grudge when you also feel the other person has had some comeuppance
Well you do know that you have been wronged if for eg you knoq exactly who stole from you then you can take it back + interests for using that thing or however you want to deal with it. After that you will not feel as much of grudge you felt before.
You do have higher ground if you have been victim, at least in sense of morality. Idk of higher ground is a good term here.
Very true. I guess I’m just thinking of the cases when you don’t have very good reasons to hold onto it and should probably just forgive and forget (past slights, etc.) and you end up marinating in the past where the other person might be oblivious to any harm done.
I’m never trusting completely someone who steals from me, and never would again. Might forgive, but you probably shouldn’t ever forget.
