Sorry for missing out on the deeper meaning of cryptocurrency. Here on Nostr you have the possibility to talk to plenty of Bitcoin OGs from 2009-2012. Almost all of them own and use Monero while at the same time owning Bitcoin.
If you are a newcomer (basically anybody after 2012) you are not the alpha you think you are. You invested in Bitcoin when it became socially acceptable.
That's also the reason why you dismiss Monero. You are waiting for confirmation.
No problem. You'll get your confirmation in the coming years.