I enjoyed the thread. I wish I found more of these conversations on Nostr.
I tend to learn towards some flavor of anarchism, but it certainly has some holes in it. Probably any conceivable way of ordering society will have problems just because humans are flawed and therefore create flawed things.
I was listening to an interview with David Friedman. He and his dad were discussing anarcho-capitalism, they ended the conversation with one thinking it might work, but probably would fail, and the other thinking it might fail, but probably would work. That stuck with me for some reason.