You can spot them everywhere

Decent looking guys with obese purple haired yoga pant wearing women

The men don’t know how they got there and do not know how to escape

Step one is to take responsibility for everything. You actions, her actions, broken things, kids, etc.

Step two is to provide leadership without being asked. Take care of yourself. Stop eating garbage, take a shower, get fit and don’t let anyone dissuade you.

Stop jerking off.

Then start fucking her 3 times per week. She is the sexiest thing you e ever seen. If she resists, dont get mad, go for a run, try again later.

She’ll either follow your lead or try to knock you down. Don’t let her knock you down.