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Two pieces of dating advice I always give to female friends:

#1) Don't waste your time dating guys younger than 25 (arguably 30 if you really want a high success rate of husband material). Guys in their early/mid-twenties haven't yet been through the fire of finding themselves and building the masculine foundation required to provide you the stability that allows your femininity to flourish.

#2) If you've been dating for years and he hasn't locked you in with marriage yet, LEAVE. (The exact amount of time you should give him is up for debate; I tend to believe 2-3 years should be the max, but would love to hear others' thoughts on this in the comments). Men have the privilege of having a much longer, more forgiving biological clock. You do not. Stop wasting your time with losers who aren't ready to make you his, and begin building a munchkin army with you.

Would love to hear people's thoughts on these. Agree/disagree?

#datestr #lovestr

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Brian 1y ago

I proposed on year 5 of living together. we're about to celebrate 3 years of marriage and my son is almost 1. I might be an outlier but I always figured I'd be married with kids at some point in the future. Never fully felt like an adult ready to do that. can't pinpoint exactly when that changed but when it did I was all in

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