If you're currently living in the US: consider New Hampshire!

You can get a taste of the community during Porcfest (Porcupine Freedom Festival) every summer. (Or reach out to me and I'll connect you if you would like to get in touch with some free staters before next year)

If you're living in Europe: I don't really know if there is hope other than migrating to the US and aiming for NH.

Maybe take a look at Liberstad (they looked promising aswell but I haven't kept up with that project) or Liechtenstein/Monaco?

Depending on how wealthy you are, take a look at the FreePrivateCities Foundation and all the projects.

There are some pockets of freedom loving communities out there, but they're small and probably not near you 🙃