Diversity of thought and opinion is a good thing.
One of the things I have found particularly pleasant about your presence here is that you have been very real and well-rounded in your content and interactions on here - which goes a long way to avoiding objectification as a "sex object" and strikes a truer balance of "real person expressing sexuality."
I personally find myself sitting somewhere in the middle of two opposing opinions here, which is probably part of why I've found your approach so refreshing.