I appreciate the sentiment in this thread but let me just put this out there:
Perhaps you haven’t found an opponent in your weight class?
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Well that’s a good approach! At least you can decide how to treat others, the perception is varied, and as long as you do not step over boundaries 🙏🏼
That’s the point. I’m willing to bet very few people to none step over your boundaries.
Please don’t misunderstand what I’m trying to say -
You are the only one that can test your boundaries. They are yours. Full stop.
It's okay, I fully understand what you want to say! Beyond boundaries, a warm and kind act, even if it's small, can bring about a positive change in someone. The energy you impart to others can radiate throughout their day. Kindness, in terms of creating a comfortable atmosphere, helps make the world a bit more peaceful. 💛
Example - my boundaries are definitely averse to random acts of kindness. My upbringing gave me boundaries that if I didn’t earn it then such charity would make me feel less than and not leave me in a particular peaceful state.