I thought the same thing!
it’s just a #nostr glitch 
Discussion
That’s weird. In your chat looks like I wrote you first 🤨 In mine I thought you wrote me first. What client are you using? I’ve never seen this problem before 
nostr:npub18m76awca3y37hkvuneavuw6pjj4525fw90necxmadrvjg0sdy6qsngq955 - I don’t see the same thing in Primal or Snort
