This cuts deep…

I was dating three girls

Having fun, smoking, drinking, being wreckless… Heart broken, emotionally dead inside from that meaningless life.

Then I met a boring girl, one who rode her folding bike everywhere, lived super frugal and practical (like me). She is a chef and it’s always attractive when someone has put in their 10,000hrs…

It hurt to let go of the fiat women I enjoyed playing with, but I did, and focused my effort on the one that didn’t need me to change or jump through hoops, but provided value and wanted a family.

I quit smoking the day I found out I was going to be a dad…

Quit drinking the day my daughter was born (5 weeks ago)

And I tell everyone how much I look forward to the boring life, coming home to a cooked meal and kids running at me.

Boring is ✨

🙏