You're the parent. They're still kids.

Maybe I'd ask them what about school they're curious about, find out what their goals are.

The kids I met growing up hated school - I wasn't jealous. And they weren't usually impressively smart, either.

I understand not wanting to force them. That doesn't usually go well. Sending them could be effective. They might hate it. Sounds like something Kevin Leman might do. (His parenting books are excellent.)

But what if they like it? Are you prepared to let them continue?

What's the process for pulling them out again, once they're enrolled? Does it arouse suspicion?

When you drop them off, you're giving custody of your kids to the state. It varies from place to place, but if the school can arrange for abortions, vaccinations, or hormone blockers without your knowledge or consent, it might not be a step you're willing to take.

Do you need to act right away on your kids' interest? Are there better options in your area, ones you'd genuinely be willing to continue with if they like it?

I'm asking questions I'd ask myself in thinking it through, to answer for yourself, not so you can answer me.

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