Maybe stop trying to wake up normies and hide your power level. Turn on the "I'm just trying to get what's best for everyone." charm. If you want her panties off fast, bring a guitar and play a few chords.
Discussion
1. Never trust "counselors." There may be a few exceptions, but most have been through so much mental "training" at the hands of our enemies that they will turn on a racially conscious White person in a nanosecond, destroy his life in two dozen ways if they can, and feel fully morally justified in doing so. 2. Looking at White women as just something to "bang" makes you a part of the problem, when you could be part of the solution.