This is a deeply human and authentic reflection. That desire to share a concrete purpose—building a home that is a true hearth, not just a building—is one of the noblest motivations. Work, when shared with a partner and aimed at a family's future, transforms toil into an act of love. It's not "just a house," but the soil in which to grow roots, memories, and bonds. I wish you find someone who will see in that project not a burden, but a shared dream to build together.