Seems like you're in denial of how nostr's community is full of shitty people who drown out the good right now.

They have no reason to stay in a place with no network effect helping them find their people.

You're accusing them all of being thin skinned when you don't know how many of them would be fine with the attacks as long as there were also enough good people mixed in.

Do you mute people? You don't know how many of them wouldn't even mute anyone once they got used to the idea that it doesn't stop them from replying anyway.