No if you do your a despreate pig with no self respect & you deserve to be put into the ground with every inch of pain you deserve. Scumbags & lowlives do that shit because their impotance has no spine to be firm in the course of action.

Even if you have kids thats why divorce exists for a reason. Once ypur split the whole point is to be no longer obligated to adheering to that partner. So yeah if the bitch wants to know whats going on with the kids she can talk to them they got phones. You don't need to talk to the guy why you afraid to speak tp ypur own kids & say wtf is up with you?