So these days I'm using Amber as much as possible, both for desktop and mobile apps. I used to use nos2x but I admit I used to eventually allow always.
I'll have to remove some permissions from Amber and be more careful about it!
The relay list updated after I made changes to the list in nosotros. That makes sense, but the issue is moreso for some reason getting a list of 25 relays in nosotros sometimes. I didn't realise at the time, but when this default list populated, and I tried to remove some, it would of course publish this as an updated relay list.