Which paid relays are you on? Mine:
wss:/nostr.milou.lol
wss://eden.nostr.land
wss://relay.nostrati.com
wss://nostr.inosta.cc
wss://relay.orangepill.dev
wss://relay.nostr.com.au
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The list is growing every day lol
wss://eden.nostr.land
wss://nostr.milou.lol
wss://puravida.nostr.land
wss://nostr.wine
wss://nostr.inosta.cc
wss://nostr-pub.semisol.dev (atlas.nostr.land)
wss://relay.orangepill.dev
wss://nostr.plebchain.org
wss://relay.nostrati.com
wss://relay.nostr.com.au