Yes. I agree. That's why I haven't really been able to find "the one thing" that if you changed or prevented, the mess we are currently in would not have happened.

I would much rather have had the southern states peacefully exit the union than to have had the amount of bloodshed, trauma, and enmity that still exists today, plus all the gubment over-reach that was started, fedgov debt, seeds sown for the mechanisms of federal income taxes, Additional bureaus and assorted mechanisms of government expansion that led to partnerships that are, quite frankly, facistic in nature, between the "robber barons" and their tight grip on the reigns of opinion shaping through media to push for things that should have been left to develop as decentralized, distributed systems built at a much closer to the people level.