The reason I’m wrapping it was originally for myself then I saw your post. I want my eOS to be local archive of notes etc.

It won’t be accessible from clear net but start9 is working on that problem in general. (clearnet access for eOS). You’ll need a TOR enabled client to access your notes, but thick clients/thin relays so doable.

Having anything clear net doxxes it, so if that’s a concern, definitely don’t run the relay from your home.