and even in porn there are levels as well.
basically there are two aspects to fucking a woman - there is the physical ( size, endurance etc. ) and there is the skill issue ( knowing when to slap or choke a woman etc. and otherwise make her your bitch )
the average guy is a failure on all counts. he has no size, no stamina and no skill. and guys that do have stamina often can't finish.
in porn most every guy has size, can get it up, keep it up, and finish. but the skill varies ...
reminds me of a video where James Deen was beating Charlie Sheen's Porn Star girlfriend and the producer was apologizing to her saying he warned her it would be rough but the girl was so into being abused by James Deen she basically told the producer to " mind your own business old man i want him to fuck me up " ...
of course James Deen can do it becaues he's hot. it's the same as how Trump could "grab em by the pussy" because he was Rich. if you try to do those things to a woman you will get locked up.
the bottom line is an average guy like you doesn't deserve a GF. you should pay women for sex and then these women will pay guys like James Deen to fuck them properly so they can actually experience an orgasm for once.
the girl i lost my virginity to told me she actually paid a man to fuck her once, and she was a beautiful blonde with perfect body and face. but reality is there are more beautiful girls than there are men who know how to make a woman orgasm.
this is also why women fuck Niggers - because they can't orgasm with their boyfriend and are desperate to try anything, even if they know the Nigger will kill them afterwards.