I was just like him. my mother used to say it was ok to make mistakes and that she trusted me and it made me feel worse. when I read what you wrote "let him try to be perfect" I dropped some weight here. maybe I thought I was stupid trying to be perfect and it made me feel even less perfect hahaha but when you say that, it's like I was not that dumb and it's ok to try to be anything. it's just not necessary. but ok. haha sorry for this comment but it really changed something here