People have an evolutionary need to suffer. Especially women. This is why if you take full care of your woman, she becomes bored, resentful and miserable.
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So we shouldnt aim for perfection?
We should always aim for perfection. We need to perfect ourselves and our world. But we should not create vacuum, life loses meaning if our behaviours dont affect anything and if there's no danger.
This is very interesting. Can you elaborate on this more please? I feel safety is very important. Creating safe spaces for the feminine to be seen, felt and heard. How does this fit into the framework you talk of above?
Safety is very important and you as a man should definitely create a safe world around you. But it doesn't mean you should shield her into the vacuum. People need to understand that there is danger and by living as their best selves they can be safe and happy. If it's safe anyway whatever you do, why bother, life loses meaning.