I would use less relays and see how that goes. Under 20 on Amethyst works fine for me
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You can also check to see which relays do have your notes. Here is one site, there are several
Hey thanks for that. I just checked a post and 0 out of 542 relays checked had my note.
It would be great to learn more about how to manage relays - I thought I was set up well - I've paid for a bunch but I don't know how to monitor or how to read the relay page on amethyst.
Any pointers would be appreciated. Thanks.