Assuming im using @OXchat over Tor are there really any meaningful privacy gains? Or even a regular giftwrapped dm over Tor strait to my citrine?

"No usurnames" seems to be a gimmick. Anyone can spin up a infinite number of npub's. What is the effective difference in obsec between infinity on noster and zero on simplex?

It was really hard to get friends and family on signal, and then they started shitcoining and I'm like: yeah I don't do that anymore. I can't imagine telling my mom to follow me on noster but dm me on simpleX.