Ok, Sorry it took so long to get back. I was trapped under a baby but I finally got him to sleep. I created a whole new alby and nostr account to test this out.

You need a nostr key pair set in the alby extension, you also need a nip-05 set up.

It looks like you have nip-05 setup so make sure alby is set up with the keypair

Once that is all done you need to do a hard refresh of primal.net (ctrl+shift+f5 in chromium based browsers)

that should trigger primal to check for a extension login and then off to the races.