There are plenty of people who will give every person the benefit of the doubt and say shit like "Everyone is doing their best", as if effort wasnt a choice and didn't require agency.
I am not one of those people, and there is room for me on earth. The world will continue to spin if I just say, "fuck grown adults who can't take care of their shit; who don't have the presence of mind to even know how to ask for help." Fuck them all.