Yes it’s literally the most important decision any man will make.
And to add my own little bit of advice: do NOT take things slow. I’m not talking physically. You need to be grilling these women with important questions that most men don’t find out until after marriage and it either creates a depressing life or divorce.
Religion, values, morals, goals, financial views, politics, family, do you want kids, how many, are we going to vaccinate them, are you going to cave from other moms pressuring you. Probably should be asking her family similar questions as well.