I'm only saying this part because I know how stupid some men can be, but no, I do not think of curly every time I go swimming in the ocean.

yes, I remember how scared I was to be in there by myself at first, and how much I missed being in the ocean with him, but I got over it the moment I realized that I didn't need him to keep me from drowning.

I hadn't thought about him much in MONTHS until he randomly showed up with his new woman at the beach AT NIGHT and was all pissed about seeing Lil Snow and me.

my friend is right though – this is all stupid bullshit. this is what happens when a woman who has a LOT going for her entertains dipshit men who think they're ready but they ain't ready.