I think people are generalising too much, about women and men. Everyone just want to be understood, valued and be prioritised That's it, period.
Unfortunately, everyone who was hurt or have been scorn by another, go on making theirs and others life miserable.
I am my sugar daddy and what I want from a man is just a safe place to rest my mind on, and someone with whom I can grow together. Respect, loyalty and authenricity.
The rest I don't give much attention to.
I am pretty well at peace on my own.