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Oh man...
Ummm...well, this is a beautiful overall primer on v4v:
After that, I would say look into getting your own web server and set up your own lightning node. And just stick to it, ask questions from those who have been there and done it when you hit snags. Don't try to reinvent stuff from scratch, rather try to build upon what's out there already.