🔹"What should I use for my outbox/write relays?"

ℹ️ You need to be able to publish notes there, because it's where people will be looking for your notes

👍 Yes!

- Private relays you pay for.

- Public relays.

- Relays you control.

🔹"What should I use for my inbox/read relays?"

ℹ️ Other people should be able to publish notes there, because it's where they will send notes, zaps & reactions for you.

👍 Yes!

- Public relays.

- Relays you control and allow public access to.

👎 No!

- Private relays.

ℹ️ Pick 3 for each. Any more is just a waste of bandwidth for you and everyone trying to read your notes.

🔹"What relays should I never use for inbox/outbox?"

Search, DM & Index relays

- hist.nostr.land

- user.kindpag.es

- indexer.coracle.social

- purplepag.es

- relay.0xchat.com

- auth.nostr1.com

- relay.noswhere.com

- search.nos.today