yeah with you on all that
a big part of me feels, tho, that this is great. that the solution to "bad speech", which you and I might think this is, isn't censorship, but allowing it to be fully explored and considered etc - ie "more speech", not censorship
because to me it does just seem kind of ridiculous and unsustainable. and also non threatening
nostr is a really special place, I appreciate it even more