ENERGETIC TIES, OR RELEASE ME, ENERGY

Every relationship, internal or external, is based on energetic ties, and these continue, even when the loved one goes to the other plane. These ties exist between family members, parents, children and siblings, between partners, relatives and friends. The tendency is that these ties turn us into dependent people. Why talk about energetic ties? Because we are constituted of energy, a subtle energy, which can relate to other human beings around us.

Some experts on the subject speak of the bonds between parents and children, such as the Russian writer Konstantin V. Zorin, author of the book, The Sins of Parents and the Illnesses of Children, says: "Parents are connected to their children through invisible energetic bonds. Like blood donors, they make a constant 'transfusion' of spiritual energy. This interaction never ceases, it does not depend on time and space, it does not disappear after the physical death of either parents or children."

There exists in the family system an important relationship and a flow of energy, which many times we wish it were only of love, but we know it is not so. When we speak of bonds or energetic ties, we are referring to something more than a connection that, in the best of cases, would be a bond of love. It is worth remembering that we humans are especially energy, who experience throughout our life in a physical body, that we are connected to everything and everyone, with the bond with family and ancestors being the strongest knot.

There are also ties between couples, between members of the same community, small and close. Other authors give importance to the relationships between individuals, but also speak of the energetic links with a person, that is to say with someone, something or a circumstance. Affinity can be positive, and it can also create the opposite, and become a burden, preventing the development of the individual. It is important for each person to study himself, to understand the situation he is living and to keep the transcendence of the links.

The nature of the relationship can explain the condition of the energy that exists. Between people, this concept can be extended to material objects, also in the case of animals, places, houses, etc. When there is a union of a couple, this unity can continue to exist, even if the relationship has ended or after a divorce. The relationship with blood relations continues, as well as with ancestors. According to family constellations, as taught by Bert Hellinger,[ii] in the orders of Love this important relationship exists in the constellation of "souls", i.e. of beings related to each other, where energy flows.

The important thing of all this information is to maintain healthy relationships, where respect and love reign. It is up to each individual to maintain positive or negative ties in their lives, to choose what is best for their evolution and spiritual development in this conflicting but beautiful planet.