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Yes, I'm a woman whose gone out to college, joined the workforce, worked to oblivion to earn a living, owns a business, financially independent.

I say this because this is now becoming frowned upon for women? IDGAFWYT

Then I also get to choose to do the stay-at-home mum, be a wife thing because I succeeded in the prior.

Yarnlady 🧶 3mo ago 💬 3

When I quit my job to become "just a stay at home wife" all I ever got was do you have kids? why aren't you working? if you don't have kids, you should go get a degree and be a girl boss...I liked cooking food and making lunches and baking cookies for my husband to take to work. I felt bad about myself and less than until I quit social media.

Women will make you feel bad for your choices, men will make you feel bad for your choices...especially if you're happy with your choices. It's almost like unhappy people don't like to see happy people 🤔.

I am terribly happy for you and your family and the adventures you'll have 🫂🫂

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𝖋𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖉𝖊𝖓𝖎𝖊𝖗 (¯`◕‿◕´¯) 3mo ago

That’s why so many women are depressed and unhappy.

AK 👸🏻 3mo ago

Thanks, Yarny. 🫂♥️

You and cheese work great together as a couple so I think all else at that point is noise.

We get to define what success is in our terms and no one else.

Yarnlady 🧶 3mo ago 💬 2

🫂🫂 I just wish I'd tuned out sooner than I did. So many people told us we'd be divorced within a few years of being married because we knew each other too long, that our kid was going to be awful because their kids were bad, the list goes on and on. Don't listen and keep on keepin on.

AK 👸🏻 3mo ago

For real?? You got all that shit? 🫂🫂 *Sigh* The internet is filled with unhappy dissatisfied people. It's like a cult.

You have something many wish to have, especially the haters. Let them hate. They're ugly. 😄 I do love the harmony I notice between you and cheese. I'm just a witness to the online banter and I love it!!

Yarnlady 🧶 3mo ago 💬 1

That was irl people 😂. They're all working on spouses 3 or 4 now I guess, they faded away.

Thank you for saying that ☺️. We're friends, which a lot of married people can't say. Talk to your fella about everything, nothing should be off the table...physical or mental things going on, talk about that shit. It's poison if you keep it in. Both our parents have been married over 50 years and they are all so miserable and don't like their spouses, we chose to not be them.

AK 👸🏻 3mo ago

Copy that!! ❤️❤️