Honestly, and this might not be what you want to hear, but I think abolishing the state has always been a very unrealistic idea.

Reforming the state is a much better idea.

Lately I've been diving into UBI and I now have more hope for an actual good use of the State.

The problem is that if you put yourself into very opositional/dualistic positions, life will feel very tough. Especially regarding the State. People that are truly anti-State are very few in society.