nostr:npub1xnf02f60r9v0e5kty33a404dm79zr7z2eepyrk5gsq3m7pwvsz2sazlpr5 nostr:npub1mutnyacc9uc4t5mmxvpprwsauj5p2qxq95v4a9j0jxl8wnkfvuyque23vg Breez Phoenix are the way to go 
Discussion
as of today I am rocking nostr:npub1xnf02f60r9v0e5kty33a404dm79zr7z2eepyrk5gsq3m7pwvsz2sazlpr5
and pay onchain fees? no thanks.
If you're concerned about having to pay to have a REAL self-custodial Lightning wallet, I've got a Muun to sell you.
I'm not concerned about being able to use LN without doing onchain fees. the whole thing should be scrapped. I'm concerned that bitcoin devs are married to this payment channel rube goldberg disaster and can't think of a better way to scale.