I am glad you can so easily tell the difference between a 15 year old and a 16 year old and with such certainty that you can find the idea of being attracted to a 15 year old "categorically disgusting."
In my experience, it is damn difficult to guesstimate age after 13 or so. Some 18 year olds through early to mid 20s look way younger, while some 14-15 year olds look much older.
You are likely more disgusted by the idea of being attracted to a 15 year old than by actual 15 year olds. Put a more well-endowed 15 year old and a less well endowed 18 year old next to each other clad in their bikinis for a swim, without telling you which is which, and you'll find your dick betrays your sensibilities.
The ability or inability to express informed consent is more of an indictment of our culture prolonging childhood into adolescence and adolescence into mid to late 20s, in my opinion. There is no reason, other than avoiding giving an individual the information because they are "too young" that a young teen can't give informed consent, assuming some form of coercion didn't take place.
Most cultures in history have considered adulthood to begin sometime between 12 and 15 years of age. It has only been in the last couple centuries that sensibilities around this have changed. Interestingly, it has coincided with having public school available for all young people up through... wait for it... age 18. The standardization of K-12 education played a major role in society's perception that young people are still "children" until age 18, in my opinion.
I didn't say being attracted, dipshit. I wasn't extremely clear, but I was saying setting the arbitrary age of consent below that, that's what I would find disgusting. I was agreeing with you about how stupid the arbitrary age of consent is, and you projected bullshit into my mind instead of trying to get my point. Go fuck yourself if you're so damn paranoid about how you'll be perceived that you can't listen when someone is even AGREEING with you. Pathetic.
Here and I thought we were having a substantive and respectful discussion. Guess not...
I am at a loss as to what would make the idea that a 15 year old can have informed consent "categorically disgusting" when the idea that a 16 year old expressing the same consent would not be. Is there something particularly informative to a young person's mind between those ages?
That is why I shifted to the subject of attraction. I wrongly assumed that is what you meant when you mentioned below 16 being "categorically disgusting." The option of it being about the ability to have informed consent simply didn't seem like it could be what you were talking about, since there is nothing fundamentally different about a 15 year old's ability to be informed compared to a 16 year old.
You still don't understand. I want the age of informed consent bullshit to disappear entirely, with a more ethical standard put in its place. Some 15 year olds can legitimately consent, in my mind. Yet to set the bar to 15 or lower and make no other changes would be a severe error. That would be disgusting. Age of consent is a terrible idea whether high or low, and must be replaced with a better standard.
I do not claim to know for sure what that standard would be and how it would be determined in precise detail of all the specifics, but it must be something logical that is normalized and enforced by social pressures, by law, and by the market for protection. A natural order could do such a thing where the most basic standard is consent and self ownership.
It's a difficult problem, for sure. I don't know that there CAN be an objective standard, because people are too individual. Some parents are very frank with their children or they actually find decent information on the internet, and they would be equipped for making informed decisions much earlier, while others get very little information except what they glean from their peers, much of which is bad information.
Laws, however, have to be pretty black and white in order to be effectively enforced. That's assuming one believes there should be a government enforcing laws in the first place. A lot of people here are anarcho-capitalists. I can't see that ending well, just letting the market decide on this issue.
I'm one of those anarcho-capitalists. I'm a crab after all, I have to be as capitalist as they come. The market can and will enforce laws better than any government, especially when there is a general consensus that violations of consent, in anything regarding a person's property, of which their body is the most obvious part, are bad. It's precisely government that makes laws arbitrary.
And anything that requires a subjective valuation, which honestly everything kind of does, can be handled in a more nuanced way in a free market.
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