Why embed the innate loss of privacy in the word meant to mean "sending sats"?

Why self-attack? Why prime future bitcoiners with a faulty mental model, lens and bias, whereby sending sats = posting form whom, to whom, how much, when?

Why accept this new memetic paradigm that's distracting newbies from the simple fact that zapping and sending via LN are two completely different things, with different effects, incentives and in the end, effects?

Why zap and not just send a LN tip?