Subnostr

It's also a matter of status. If a woman is heavily desired by other men and a man manages to start dating her, it can make him more desirable, which, in turn, can spark envy from other men. It's pure hypocrisy, in my opinion. And, like I said before, toxic masculinity.

Loki 2y ago

Choosing a mate based on competition is female hormone driven behaviour. Thus you have the phenomenon of groupies.

Such a scenario as you describe leaves out the important part of how men don't compete with who they see as above them in such domains. It's just disrespectful behaviour to chase after your bros' girl, and deserves a straight up punch in the face.

It does happen, and it happened to me with one girl, and I "won" the competition and that was the end of it, he stood aside. Men respect the choices of women, unless they are conniving, bitchy manipulative cunts, and if you have friends like that, you have got problems that you are not acknowleding.

Men are the trophies, not the women. And anyway, the kind of women who chase you because other women are chasing you are not worth your time, they will drop you at the very moment you can be replaced.

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Gary ₿usey 2y ago

I couldn't agree more with this. And that's my point. Many "men" nowadays do not act as if they have genuine self-esteem, and they don't realize this. They seem to believe that turning everything into a competition is now the standard. I don't have any friends like this, but I have encountered a good amount of men who have tried to "show me up" in certain ways. Not fun. Lol.