This note popped up randomly.
Must have been fate for me to respond.
My wife is very much an opposite. I have grown so much finding our middle. The friction of contrast becomes growth in many respects.
Maybe opposites are what some people need?
It has worked for us. It’s not easy all the time, but it’s Proof of Work and I’m a better man for it zooming out.
Side note - raising our child is exciting that he will be a combination of both of our differences and I’m sure add his own sequence to the harmony. 😅