nostr:npub1p4u3648u4vf853lcpauag94aa00vm3d2kk5y6ekcuzr0eu6sjhhs8jl2nd welcome to Mastodon!

If you're new to social media, I suggest having a read of this post: https://anotherangrywoman.com/2023/01/18/how-to-give-advice-on-the-internet-without-being-an-utter-menace/

Generally, when someone is asking for advice on something specific, they're looking for replies from people with similar experiences. If that's not you - then you don't have to answer the question.