Insults should not be banned
I have seen "cisgender" used as an insult a fair few times
That doesn't mean that "cisgender" 'is' an insult all of the times
Ppl who don't want to be labelled "him" or "her" should respect other's wishes not to be labelled "cisgender"
And vice versa
Life is often a choice between live and let live
Or stomping on toes
Most ppl who choose the latter think they'll be the only ones doing the stomping
Which becomes a cycle of playing stupid games and winning stupid prizes