Why are you, as a man, using the word 'kink'?
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Those two words are basically antonyms. Chastity is the practiced and formed habit of being in control of sexual desire, whereas "kink" is the indulgence of unusual and often unnatural sexual impulses, aka unhealthy fascination and perversion.
He doesn't mean chastity but getting a kick from rebellion, exchanging bondage or repression for indulgence, and corruption of innocence.
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