Go cold on partner?

I assume its the difficulty in synchronization of pace for BOTH at professional and personal level. For people with comparatively high intelligence, the desire and demand are normally beyond the basic physical attraction which is the key to open the curiosity door at the Beginning, while the real challenge is the afterward interaction in between that continuously got boosted with the constant generation of chemical nutrients to carry on in long run.

That’s why i said it’s difficult for you guys because you are too shiny outside that The One who cares more on inside might despise at the first place. I might be wrong.